The Psychology of Fellatio

You Might Be Surprised At What Motivates People to Give Oral Sex

It took me a startlingly long time to learn that giving a blowjob could be as pleasurable for the woman giving it as it is for me. I think most men tend to feel the same and it’s no wonder why, there are so many wonderful things about receiving oral sex from your partner that most men become giddy at the opportunity to receive one. In fact, many of my would-be great instances of fellatio were tempered by the fact that I couldn’t just sit back and rest assured in complete confidence that she was enjoying herself as much as I was. Fellas, feel free to give me a silent nod if this sounds like you.

Well, rest assured, while I don’t speak for all women, here, there is quite a bit of data lying around that suggests that at least a substantial portion of women do, indeed, love giving us head. To those that don’t — to the women for whom it’s more of a laborious task done begrudgingly to keep us happy, hey, that’s your prerogative and they shouldn’t be berated for it — it’s important that we keep in mind that oral sex is a gift, not something to be commanded from other people — unless they’re into that sort of thing.

Gentlemen, if you’re reading this, feel free to candidly ask if your partner loves giving you oral sex and I guarantee you, she’ll give you an honest reply to run with and you can take it from there. Take it at face value and adjust your sex life accordingly. If you’re like I was, perhaps you can relax a little bit in the knowledge that she’s down there having a good time. I know I wasted a lot of would-be great blowjobs worrying whether or not it would be wonderful for the other person involved.

What’s to Love?

I’ve always wondered how, why would women love giving oral sex to a man…what is it that women find appealing? From the perspective of a heterosexual guy, it just seems so…uncomfortable. I liken it to that awful feeling when you’ve taken too big of a bite of your dinner and you can’t really even chew it, you’re just suspending in this weird, uncomfortable limbo that you can’t quite get yourself out of; your gag reflex is starting to set in, as well as the ensuing panic because you don’t know what else you’re going to do, sitting there in front of your family…

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Cheney Meaghan is a single mom and writer from Connecticut trying to make a living with her words. You can be awesome by clicking here to sign up for her bi-monthly email newsletter.

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